Saturday, March 31, 2007
Friday, March 30, 2007
Second square done - Dancing Crayons

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Thursday, March 29, 2007
The days ahead

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Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Another work day at the lake
Sam tested the waters again and played on the beach:
I found a bumper sticker I thought about saving for Tom, but then decided to go ahead and put it on the van:
And just before we quit for the day, Mom and I started going through a box of Grandmother's papers on the porch and found a letter dated December 8, 1865, stating that E.E. Wilson, a private in H Company, 2nd Regiment, Massachusetts Heavy Artillery died in a "Rebel Prison" in Charleston, South Carolina in September 1864. Edward E. Wilson was my great-great-great grandfather, and his daughter, Laura, was 15 when he died. On the back of the letter, written in pencil Great-great Grandmother Laura had written: "Notice of Father's death in the army. Keep."
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Lake work
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Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Chai oatmeal
Chai Oatmeal
1 c. water
1/4 t. cinnamon
1/8 t. cloves
a dash of nutmeg
a dash of salt
1 T. honey
1/2 c. oats
In small saucepan bring water, spices, honey and salt to a boil. Add oats and lower heat. Cook until desired consistency. Makes 1 serving.
I made this for breakfast for the last two days using quick oats, but I'd like to try it with the steel cut oats sometime. It was delicious and satisfied my chai cravings, but I'm sure the original recipe tastes even better.
More sewing
So with assurances from Steve that he would take care of attaching the hardware for the curtain rod to the door, I measured the window...
measured the material, cut, pinned, sewed, ironed, and hung the curtains:
Now people coming to the back door can't see us. (And we can't see them either, unless we do the Gladys Kravitz curtain-twitch thing.)
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Monday, March 26, 2007
Dancing Crayons
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A Perfect Mess

While she was here, I told Penny she should read A Perfect Mess by Eric Abrahamson and David H. Freedman because it is entertaining and interesting.
Steve told me I do not need to learn how to be messy. I told him this book is not to encourage messiness or disorder, but to point out that extreme neatness and organization are not always beneficial.
When we first married, Steve and I both worked and I did all the housework and most of the cooking, but our home was always neat, clean and organized. And the cleaning and straightening and meal preparations never took more than six hours out of a week. The advantage of being neat and organized was not outweighed by the cost.
Twenty-four years, nine children, a work-at-home husband, and seventeen years of homeschooling later the cost of neatness and organization is much greater. I can keep my home spotless, have everything in its place at all times, make tolerable meals, have the laundry done, and every piece of correspondence/paperwork addressed each and every day, but if I do I will not be homeschooling my children, reading (to myself or anyone else), knitting, sewing, running errands for anyone, taking children to music or sports' practice, or spending an evening watching a movie or conversing with Steve.
We've had to make a choice: strive to keep super-tidy and neat, as though we were a childless couple, or a family whose children attended a conventional school; or accept a certain amount of disorder and mess and enjoy the family and the circumstances God has given us.
I confess to struggling with a misplaced admiration of neatness. I saw myself in some of the types of neat people Abrahamson and Freedman describe. For example, my children would agree that I can be an "order terrorist" who always demands that they put away all toys before leaving a room or before bedtime (yeah, that can be a real joy-killer when a child has been making a super set-up with Playmobil toys or Legos, has to go to bed, but would like to play with the set-up the next day...) and an "orderly procrastinator" who spends more time picking up toys, books, shoes, etc., than playing with my children. (They write of the orderly procrastinator: "Avoids real accomplishment by endlessly reneatening and reordering." Ugh! That's me!)
The bottom line is that I need to realize that some types of mess and clutter are useful and helpful. I also need to remember that my children have personalities and traits that God gave them, and they aren't going to be cookie-cutter images of me. And I know that some day Steve and I will again be alone in the house, and the house will be neat, clean, orderly - and boring, and silent, and calm.
Better enjoy the mess, the clutter, the disorder and slack organization while it lasts...
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Now I'm Penny-less
Penny flew in last Thursday, stayed through the weekend, and left yesterday. I enjoyed her visit immensely, and realize (and am grateful) that God has blessed me with a wonderful friend.
While Penny was here, we knitted a lot (she got me started on two new projects, and kindly and patiently showed me how to properly yarn-over purlwise - and didn't laugh hysterically at the sad little wonky purl-wise yarn-overs I'd already done on my Cabaret Raglan - AND she threw out lots of ideas on how I might be able to fix the mess that was/is my autumn boucle wrap ), talked a lot, walked some, shopped at the thrift store and the library book sale, and went to the museum and the re-enactment at Horseshoe Bend National Military Park.
While Penny was here, David had his long-delayed birthday party, and Penny was gracious and understanding, saying that all the boys running around made her feel right at home. We took the boys (and Sarah, Joan, Marley, and Sam) with us to the re-enactment, but they went off on their own, leaving Penny and me to wander about and enjoy the people and exhibits.
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Two knitting books
One-skein Wonders arrived last week, just in time for me to enjoy it over the week-end. The patterns are quick, easy, and definitely not fudging with that one skein.However, many of the patterns are ones I already have in some variation or another, or are items I wouldn't make (an ipod pouch, a collar, a head band, etc.). I think this would have been great for me a few years ago when, as a novice knitter, a large project seemed overwhelmingly difficult. Now I think it'll make a good reference for my daughters who knit, and I'm sure I'll try one or two of the sock or hat patterns, and some of the shawls. I'm also glad to have it to recommend to friends and neighbors who are looking for something to knit without using a lot of $$$. (Now I'm re-thinking that collar... one skein of silk for $7 would fit the bill for that, but if I wanted to knit a shawl or a shell with silk, it could be pretty pricey!)

I finally received my copy of No Sheep for You by Amy Singer. (I think I'm the last knitter on the planet to get mine, and it's been pre-ordered since December - but I'm not bitter, or anything.) This is my new favorite knitting book. Amy uses the first part of the book to tell all about the different natural non-wool fibers: what they are, how they are made, what their cellular construction is and how that affects how they feel and wear. I love all the information, both scientific and historical, that she includes. That, alone, makes it worth the money.
Of course, she doesn't stop there. Amy also includes great patterns to knit using those non-wool fibers. (And they're modeled by real people who look as though they eat every day - not humans teetering on the brink of starvation.) This is going to be wonderful for me now that I'm living in Alabama where wool is comfortable for only a few months of the year.
Behold, Here's Poison

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Tuesday, March 20, 2007
Flight Path

Dad dropped off this biography of Frank Barker, Jr. , the founding pastor of Briarwood Presbyterian Church in Birmingham, Alabama, because he thought Steve would enjoy it. I saw it and read it last night. Now it's on my "must-have-a-copy-of-my-own" list. I'd also love to get several copies to give to my sons.
Flight Path is written from Frank Barker's point of view. In fact, reading it is like listening to him speak. (I've only heard him once - last summer he came to our church and spoke to the adults one evening during vacation Bible school.) And it mainly covers his life from high school until he retired from Briarwood. But what a life! He was a drunken, carousing, hard-living Navy pilot (and Auburn grad - War Eagle!) when he felt like he should go to seminary to live a better life, be a good man, and appease God. He went through seminary - or at least half-way through it - and was preaching at a church in Oxford, Alabama for two years before he became a Christian! Mr. Barker recounts how God brought him around and saved him, and how he saw God's goodness and provision through out the years in his family and in the church.
He tells how amazed he was when he realized that salvation was a gift from God, not something one could earn:
"I wondered why no one had told me that salvation was a gift. Then I thought, 'Isn't it strange that Martin Luther didn't know that.' The reason I thought about Luther was that I had just read his commentary on Galatians for a course I was taking. If Luther had known that salvation is a gift, he would have brought it out in the book! I wanted to see how he had missed it, so I pulled the commentary off the shelf and reread it. To my amazement it was on every page!"
One area this knowledge affected his life was in giving:
"Now that I understood salvation was a gift, I wanted to express my gratitude for God's amazing grace; but I didn't know how. The idea occurred to me to express my gratitude by increasing the percent I tithed each year...." (Every year he and his wife upped the percentage of their tithes until he retired - at that point they were giving away 75% of their income.)
It also made him desire to tell everyone what he had learned - he was excited about it. He told his parents, who were Christians and had been praying for him for years. They smiled and told him that yes, they knew salvation was a gift from God. He asked them why they never told him that and they replied that they had, God just hadn't opened Frank's eyes until that point, and they were so thankful that He had! He called his sister and shared with her. He wrote his girlfriend, Barbara, who later married him, and told her the gospel. He told friends, acquaintances, old drinking buddies - anyone he could get to listen - about Christ.
I'm not able to give this the book the review it deserves. Words fail me. Suffice it to say, I really liked this book. It had me laughing aloud many times, and crying at other times. Mr. Barker doesn't hesitate to confess his sins and his shortcomings. Janie Buck and Mary Lou Davis have done a marvelous job of capturing Frank Barker, Jr. Now if he would read it aloud for an audiobook!
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Laundry!
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Monday, March 19, 2007
Saturday, March 17, 2007
Two quick, enjoyable mysteries

M.C. Beaton's Death of a Maid is a good one-night-read mystery. I found it at the library last week and read it while volunteering at the museum Thursday morning (we had no visitors).
If I'd never read a Hamish Macbeth mystery before, I think I'd still find this one enjoyable and easy to follow. Thankfully, the story really does center on solving the murder of an unlikeable cleaning woman - one who didn't clean very well, yet was still able to continue to work for her employers - and not much on Hamish's personal life. The identity of the killer surprised me, but perhaps I wasn't paying close attention to the clues. It was still a pleasant entertainment while knitting and waiting for museum patrons.

Last night I enjoyed another one-night-read, The Body in the Ivy by Katherine Hall Page. I love Page's mysteries. In the delectable, mouth-watering tradition of Virginia Rich and Diane Mott Davidson, Page has written a series of mysteries with caterer Faith Fairchild as sleuth. Faith's married to a minister, has two children, and she's a normal woman with a talent for cooking and baking. And for stumbling on bodies and solving mysteries.
This mystery deliberately echoes Agatha Christie's And Then There Were None , which made it even more delightful. Ten people come to Bishop's Island, also known as Indian Island, to spend a week together. There is one man: Brent Justice, handyman and caretaker; and nine women: Barbara Bailey Bishop, successful writer, owner of the island, and hostess for the gathering; Faith Fairchild, caterer; and seven of Barbara's former classmates at Pelham, a women's college. They are there to solve the murder of another classmate, Helene Prince.
Recipes for food served in the book are included. (I want to try "Asian Noodles with Crabmeat" and "Boeuf Bourguignon.")
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Friday, March 16, 2007
Found fabric
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Thursday, March 15, 2007
Another pair of not-socks
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Wednesday, March 14, 2007
The Northern Lights

Someday I'd really like to see the northern lights. When we lived in upstate New York I kept hoping they would show in the sky, but they didn't.
In her book, The Northern Lights, Lucy Jago writes about the Norwegian scientist and inventor Kristian Birkeland. Jago concentrates on Birkeland's adult years, and the role he played in discovering what causes the northern lights phenomenon. She opens her narrative with his first expedition to a crude observatory on Haldde Mountain, in Finnmark, Norway, where he and several assistants spent the fall and winter of 1899-1900 observing the aurora borealis. The men endured horrible conditions to gather scientific data from the few instruments available to them at that time.
Birkeland continued his observations and experiments for the next fifteen years, always fighting for funds, and several times using knowledge he'd gained in his studies of the northern lights to make inventions used in other ways. (He was the primary scientist to figure out how to produce nitrogen for fertilizer using a furnace, and he had plans for an electromagnetic cannon to be used in war.) He appears to have been gifted with an extraordinarily active mind - always working and pondering and even when not purposely thinking about what he was studying, having solutions to other scientific problems jump into his head.
Birkeland also studied the Zodiacal Light (which I'd never heard of until I read this book), and spent several years in Egypt and the Sudan observing this particular light. He did not have very good health, and his poor eating and sleeping habits, combined in later years with alcohol and veronal use (for sleeping), made his health and mental acuity decline quite rapidly in the years of World War I. He died of an accidental overdose of veronal in 1919 - not yet 52 years old.
In the epilogue, Jago neatly brings Birkeland's discoveries forward in time to show the reader the significance of this man's work, and how many of his ideas and theories were proven true decades after his death.
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Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Not-socks
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Monday, March 12, 2007
New office is up and running!
Cherry tree - still blooming
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Friday, March 09, 2007
Chicken soup for a spring cold
Thursday, March 08, 2007
Wednesday, March 07, 2007
A Woman Doctor's Civil War

A Woman Doctor's Civil War is the edited diary of Esther Hill Hawks, a physician and wife of a physician, written from 1862 to 1866 while she lived in South Carolina and Florida. She went south to be near her husband, and to serve as a teacher for the Freedmen's Aid Society. During the war years she lived in and around Beaufort and Charleston, South Carolina, and Jacksonville, Florida.
Although her diary has been edited somewhat, her personality is still clearly seen. A woman of incredible energy, I see her as very much a do-er. Spelling was not something she worried about, and her writing must have been more for her own memories, rather than to inform or edify an audience. She takes note of certain people and events that pleased her or were important because of the people involved. Her love was clearly for those she served, whether in hospitals, schools/classes, or the orphanage she helped establish in Charleston at the end of the war. She spent a lot of time apart from her husband, as he was serving the wounded and sick in the regiment - not a place for a woman. But by living in South Carolina and Florida she was able to see him more often than she could have had she remained at home in New Hampshire.
Esther Hill Hawks and her husband were never blessed with children, and she grieved the loss of motherhood. I think that may have been why she loved her students and patients so much - it gave her an outlet for her compassionate and nurturing tendencies.
Seeing the war and the South through the eyes of Esther Hill Hawks, a northern woman, was an educational experience for me. I hope that the rest of her diaries will someday be found and published, as I'd like to read about her post-war life (which was busy as a doctor and educator) through her own words as well.
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Tuesday, March 06, 2007
The Long Dark Road
Betty's father, William Edward Brougher, was a U.S. Army general commanding the 11th Division, Philippine Army and was captured by the Japanese when the American forces in Bataan surrendered on April 9, 1942. From then on General Brougher was a part of a group of high-ranking prisoners of the Japanese. The Japanese moved them to Tarlac, then to Formosa, and finally to Manchuria. On August 18, 1945, the Russian army took Mukden and liberated the prisoners. While he was a prisoner of war, Betty's father wrote poetry, then self-published the poems after he returned home under title The Long Dark Road. Betty loaned me the little volume of her dad's poems and I enjoyed it so much that I ordered a copy for myself from an internet bookseller.
Here is an excerpt from the book:
Special for Mrs. B.
Note: Since December 8, 1941 [and until February 22, 1944], I have not had a letter from home. As prisoners of war, we are held completely incommunicado. Written at Tarlac Prison Camp, Philippine Islands, 21 May 1942.
For Francis K., an Army wife,
Down South in U.S.A.,
We have a message for you, please,
It came by "Milky Way."
From prison camp in far Luzon
The mystic message came,
Your husband is alive and well
And loves you just the same.
He held a post of high command
With record brave and true ---
Was faithful to his duty as
He's ever been to you.
The soldier has no choice of time
When country names the day;
The soldier has no choice of goals
When duty points the way.
Such things are trite and understood
By Army girls like you,
When soldiers drink the bitter cup
Their wives must drink it, too.
His isolation is complete
By land and sea and air,
His only means of reaching you
Are thought and wish and prayer.
But "Trans-Celestial" ways are clear
On starry nights in May,
The night can turn some magic tricks
That can't be done by day.
The "Crescent Moon," a wishing ship,
That sails the trackless blue,
Has brought the news of life and hope
Direct from him to you.
The charge is just a happy smile,
So dry your tears away,
And keep tuned in for later news
The same time every day.
The message ends the usual way---
Your husband's words, you see:
"With love and kisses for you all"---
He signs it
EDWARD B.
Monday, March 05, 2007
Blind Side

Blind Side by Catherine Coulter was not what I was expecting, but I did read it to the end and wasn't too disappointed.
This is the first book I've read by Coulter, and I gather that several of the characters in this book have been featured in other books by her. As an F.B.I. thriller I found it a little slim on forensics, footwork, and guesswork leading to the capture of the criminals. This story of a kidnapped little boy (with a happy ending) is told mainly from the viewpoint of the victims, and while they were quite likeable and sympathetic, it wasn't what I was expecting. The bad guys were a bit too predictable, too. Still, for entertainment and not education it was a good read.
(I did have to willingly suspend my disbelief several times, however, not least in the cheery cavalier way these FBI agents let everyone know they were FBI agents - aren't they supposed to be somewhat sparing with that information sometimes?)
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Sunday, March 04, 2007
Haiku for Spring
Joey spent the weekend here
Sweater front finished
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Saturday, March 03, 2007
More office progress
Today Steve will build the attic door and frame and the girls will paint them.
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Thursday, March 01, 2007
Making progress
And the woodwork...
And last night they painted the walls. This morning they taped the walls so they can paint the woodwork before the nasty weather rolls in.
Steve hopes that by tonight or tomorrow we can paint the floor. Actually, he hopes that the girls can paint the floor. They are much more limber than their aged parents, and can work circles around us.
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